Sunday, March 21, 2010

The Art of Giving.

"Rivers do not drink their own water, nor do tree eat their own fruit, nor do rain clouds eat the grains reared by them. The wealth of the noble is used solely for the benefit of others" Even after accepting that giving is good and that one must learn to give, several questions need to be answered.

The first question is: When should one give?

One does not know really whether one will be there tomorrow to give!
The time to give therefore is now.

The next question is: How much to give?

One recalls the famous incident from history. Rana Pratap was reeling after defeat from the Moghals. He had lost his army, he had lost his wealth, and most important he had lost hope, his will to fight. At that time in his darkest hour, & nbsp; his erstwhile minister Bhamasha came seeking him and placed his entire fortune at the disposal of Rana Pratap. With this, Rana Pratap raised an army and lived to fight another day.

Give as much as you can!

The next question is: What to give?

It is not only money that can be given. I could be a flower or even a smile. It is not how much one gives but how one gives that really matters. When you give a smile to a stranger, that may be the only good thing received by him in days and weeks! You can give anything but you must give with your heart! One also needs answer to this question: Whom to give to?

Many times we avoid giving by finding fault with the person who is seeking. However, being judgmental and rejecting a person on the presumption that he may not be the most deserving is not justified.
Give without being judgmental!

Next we have to answer: How to give?

Coming to the manner of giving, one has to ensure that the receiver does not feel humiliated, nor the giver feels proud by giving. Charity without publicity and fanfare is the highest form of charity.
Give quietly!

While giving let not the recipient feel small or humiliated. After all what we give never really belonged to us. We come to this world with nothing and will go with nothing. The thing gifted was only with us for a Temporary period. Why then take pride in giving away something which really did not belong to us? Give with grace and with a feeling of gratitude.

What should one feel after giving?

Give and never regret giving!

And the last question is:

How much should we provide for our heirs?

Ask yourself, 'are we taking away from them the gift of work'? - A source of happiness! The answer is given by Warren Buffett:  Leave your kids enough to do anything, but not enough to do nothing! In learning the Art of Giving, I would conclude by quoting Sant Kabir:

"When the wealth in the house increases, when water fills about, Throw them out with both hands!”

This is the wise thing to do.
Believe where others doubt
Work where others refuse
Save where others waste
Stay where others Quit


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